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"My train of thought is so different and I want to thank you for that. I am so glad that I was lead to you, so you could change my life forever. Never will I ever think the thoughts that I was thinking when I walked into your door anymore because of you. Thank you so much for helping me find my way to a clear head. Thank you for saving my life! I'm forever in your debt." 

                                                           K, OK

Evanescence Counseling PLLC

5909 Northwest Expy #238, Oklahoma CityOK 73132, USA


Elysha in Harrah, OK | Apr 22, 2016
My husband and I started seeing Charity towards the end of last year. Charity is very easy to talk to and has made a vast improvement on how my husband and I communicate to each other. She listens intently, explains what each of us is feeling and how the other person may be interpreting said emotions. She has made going to counseling an enjoyable environment and I would highly recommend her services to anyone. Thank you Charity!


In Network: Aetna, First Health, Coventry, Blue Cross Blue Shields, Global Health, MHNET, Health Choice, Magellan, First Choice, Value Options, Resource One, Web TP, Oklahoma Health Care Network, Beacon, Highway HealthCare Network, Triwest, (Cigna coming soon). Insurance requires a billable diagnosis for payment.

Ashlie H. in Oklahoma City, OK | Apr 23, 2016
I thoroughly enjoy going to Charity. She's great at guiding you through your journey. She is the least judgmental person I know, and she's extremely knowledgable. I can always count her to work me into to her schedule. She has really helped me improve my life in many ways.

    Why Choose Us?

  • Experienced Mental Health and Couples Counselor
  • Specializes in Sex Therapy
  • Warm Comfortable Environment
  • Interactive Therapist
  • Flexible scheduling and Special attention paid to each client.

Evanescence Counseling PLLC's mission is to provide personalized, high-quality care to all in need, including all lifestyles of relationships  Read More

I had an issue with ED and it was really harming my relationship and lowering my self worth. Charity helped me see past the physical problem into the psychological aspect so I could overcome my ED.



Office Hours

Monday - Friday: 8:00 - 7:00 pm.

By appointment

Saturday: 11:00 - 2:00 pm.

Sunday: Closed

Appointment Request


  • Mental Health Therapy
  • Individual therapy
  • Relationship/Couples therapy
  • Pre-Marital therapy
  • Marital therapy
  • Sex Therapy
  • LGBT
  • Groups
  • NEW Therapeutic Hugging coming soon
  • ​Therapeutic Dogs Coming soon.

Sex Therapy: Marriage and Relationship Therapy in Oklahoma City

Call Us:  +1.4054207877


Session Fee is $100.00 per  50 minutes and $125.00 for 90 minutes. ​Buy a package , 4 sessions for $340.00 total. Interns are now available for lesser fee. Income base scale.      


Transgender ​Support Group for Partners/Spouses of individuals transitioning. Starts May 27th at 11:00 am

Support Groups for Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse.  

Teen Support Group: Learn to advocate for yourself in relationships.

​ Please send an inquire for information on start dates and fees.

Charity Danker has been a lifesaver. Don't know where I'd be right now if it wasn't for Charity. Wouldn't be married that's for sure. LOL! She truly helped to pull me out of the doldrums. She genuinely cares for you and it shows. Great listener, and communicator. Very real and down to earth. Doesn't hit you over the head with a bunch of psychobabble. She provides a soft place to land. I highly recommend her and have.

Craig, OK

​Health Insurance Accepted

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